This post was actually prepared in 2016 !!! but I forgot to post it LOL !!!
Sooo this post is about our experience when Sai had HFMD not once but twice in the span of 5 months :(
Let me start with the first experience,
This was on her birthday ( 18th June 2016 ), She was very grumpy and crying the whole day, We all thought it was due to lack of sleep. Her body temperature starting rising. I gave her fever med and she was okay but very quiet and grumpy most of the time.
Next day we realize spots on her body especially around her bum, 1 or 2 huge ones that my mom said looks like chicken pox, So we decided to take her to the peads just to check and confirm if it was chicken pox.
The moment the doctor saw she confirmed it was HFMD, They immediately had to admit her, everything happen just so fast, The doc told me to wait outside and took her in to give her an IV....OMG I almost burst out crying outside the doctor's room. I had no idea about HFMD !!!! I was just so blur !!! Apparently HFMD symptoms only shows up after a week of getting it. Which means She had already got it few days ago but what was funny is Sai hardly went out door or came in contact with any child to get it.
She was admitted for about 5 days, the rash became worse in the next 2 days and a few huge ones with fluid in it. She had it severe around her bum. Words can't describe how I felt then, I use to cry along with her when I had to wash her bum because it was so sore 😓. She was isolated and not allowed to leave the room.
Long story short, after 5 stressful day and sleepless nights she was discharged but was still kept under isolation for another 7 days.
Please note, If a child gets HFMD once they become prone to it and whenever HFMD is on the rise.
So as for Sai the rashes were subsiding, as for the huge ones it burst and was drying up, and bad enough...her palm,feet and her bum inner skin started peeling off 💀💀 !!!! Apparently these are sign of healing.
Not recovered fully yet !!! 2 months later, her finger nails & toe nails start breaking and dropping. * Sign of healing as well* but this only happens in severe cases of it. Yes Sai's case was consider severe.
Usually the rashes would only appear around the palm, feet and around the mouth but she has it alot on her bum area.
FINALLY SHE WAS FULLY RECOVERED AND ALL BACK 2 NORMAL.
One fine day after 5 months , I went for a makeup appointment early morning and when I got back husband told me that she's having rash around her bum, I saw and it was very very mild, I thought it was nappy rash...later that day her temperature started increasing and she was huffing and puffing *which she hardly does*, and as I was about to change her pampers I notice the rash bulging slightly more than in the morning, and I had a feeling it is HFMD again, I checked her palm n feet n notice it was red'ish.
The first time Sai had this, someone introduced me to a lotion from Amway which helped the rash to dry fast and itch less.
I immediately applied that lotion on her n rushed her to a clinic as it was a Sat and her peads was not around, the doctor confirmed she was having it again, but it was very mild and she doesn't require to be in hosp just isolate her,
Next day she stopped drinking milk completely she refused using her pacifier as well which was basically inseparable from her, she refused to brush her teeth or even talk, When we checked her mouth it was FULLLLL OF ULCER, on both sides of her tongue, the walls of her mouth, inner part of her lips, throat just every where.
We immediately rushed her to the emergency, and the checked her and everything and decided to admit her, as she refused to have anything to eat or drink.
So it was the whole process again...but this time was even worse as she was a little more grown and aware, her dad accompanied her into the doc's room to get the IV fixed as I waited outside. My hand was shivering badly and my eyes were filled with tears as I waited outside hearing her scream AMMMMAAAAA AMMMAAAAAA, a nurse passed me and went into the room and as the door flipped, I saw Sai looking at me trying to reach out for me.
Seeing your little one sick is a very painful thing, seeing them in pain and you being helpless is even more painful.
Long story short she was admitted for almost 4 days this time, Isolated again. I was a little more aware of the situation and knew how to handle it. I continued applied Allano everyday... She hardly had rashes on her body. Besides the ulcer in her mouth.
She started drinking thru a straw and eating cold stuffs after 1 day, she totally forgot about her pacifier and milk bottle. She recover fast this time. Very mild skin peeling and NO CRACK NAILS.
Being a Mom
A mother's rant
Thursday, January 25, 2018
Sunday, November 27, 2016
1st post for 2016 :D
So I guess the title of this blog is clear 😁. This is my 1st blog for 2016. Well I promise to post more here after.....So a quick update on Sai's 2016 journey.
She's now 2 years and 5 months.
Her speech is improving day by day.
She's able to build a sentence of her own.
She's very hyper, bold and loud 😍
She's been into the hospital twice this year for HFMD. ( Will post a separate blog on that )
As for me....life has never got easier, it's just challenging day by day but definitely fun!!
I have challenged alot of things in life ever since Sai was born and still changing. 💪💪💪
Murali and I have started discussing about having our next child, but lots of things we are considering. Well I believe God will bless us when the time is right. ✌
She's now 2 years and 5 months.
Her speech is improving day by day.
She's able to build a sentence of her own.
She's very hyper, bold and loud 😍
She's been into the hospital twice this year for HFMD. ( Will post a separate blog on that )
As for me....life has never got easier, it's just challenging day by day but definitely fun!!
I have challenged alot of things in life ever since Sai was born and still changing. 💪💪💪
Murali and I have started discussing about having our next child, but lots of things we are considering. Well I believe God will bless us when the time is right. ✌
Thursday, July 2, 2015
THE HEARTACHE
Laxshika has not been well for the past 3 days, continuous fever. Took her to the doctor on the first day, medication didn't help much.
Her body temperature kept fluctuating. She had never had such high fever.
Her body temperature kept fluctuating. She had never had such high fever.
Early this morning she woke up at 4 a.m and was grumpy and restless, temperature was in 39.5° . I was so worried, rushed her to hosp later that morning, fever had already gone down, I noticed red dots all over her body and informed the doctor,
Suspected it was measles. Doctor then suggested to do a blood test, I was so upset and worried, as I stood outside the doctor's room my heart was aching to hear her scream n cry, at the point I just wished I could bare her pain for her. I felt like crying.
When I went in back I saw her looking around for me n immediately stucked to me, she was showing her hand and saying something in her baby language. I know it wasn't a big thing, but seeing my baby go thru the pain made me tear.
I would never want to see her in such pain again. I guess it's just what me call a Mother's affection.
Thank God it's just a viral fever and the red spots are due to post viral effects. Hope she recovers soon.
Wednesday, June 24, 2015
ONE YEAR & 6 days
It just feels like I just went in for labour, time has passed so fast.. Sai Laxshika has turned ONE !
Yes things has changed since the time she was born, it has got even challenging..
She has got 6 teeth, her 1st two were her vampire tooth.
She started walking on her birthday. She still is in the zombie mode of walking, not really stable but for a matter of fact I know its not going to be any easy LOL!
Her first word was at 8 months (tata) meaning grandpa, she can now say amma (mother), akka (sister), mam mam when she's hungry or thirsty.
She's growing up very fast and is getting very beautiful, takes away all my pain n sorrows with her cheeky smile.
Wednesday, February 4, 2015
My Empty Home
So by the tittle some of you should know what am I facing right now :p
Sai Laxshika Nair is now 7 months and has become a pro crawler. Not only does she crawls but she has started holding the chair and standing. Sometime she forgets she has not yet major the skills of walking and intends to take of her hands from the chair and then TIMBERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR she falls.
My eyes has to be glued on her as where she is heading to.
She loves playing with remotes,phones, etc . Does not like or even touch any soft toys or dolls. LOL
Thursday, November 27, 2014
Next one on the way !!!!!
Now don't get into any conclusion reading the tittle !!!!!!! This post is nothing else but a grumble about our culture's myths and beliefs.
- When you're newly married, you put on a few pounds and people go like " Hey Divi, you put on weight, pregnant ha ?
- When you're newly married and lose weight or look pale, people go like " Hey Divi, looking pale, enna morning sickness ha ???
- When you're newly married and look normal, people go like " So, any good news on the way??" ( while rubbing your tummy !!! )
DEAR AUNTY MISS SIBUK !!!
- I know I have put on weight !!! its because I am EATTING ALOT !!!!!!
- I am looking pale because I'm just recovering from food poisoning !!!
- Can I throw back the same question on you @ a funeral ???
I truly believe that having a child is not in anyone's hand, it's all in God hand. Having a child is a gift from God. You may get it immediately after your marriage, or after a few months, or maybe after a couple of years. So don't go around pushing people on if they are pregnant or not. They surely will inform the whole world if they are! So just chill and watch some serials till they inform you the good news !
Coming back to this post title !!!
Now that I have already gone thru the whole hell process of what newly married girls go thru, I thought iwas done, but NO!!!!!!
Here comes "Aunty miss sibuk again "
- During Lax's 16th day prayer, broke the coconut during the ritual and there was a flower in the coconut "if that's what they call it". People go like " Waaaaa very goood la next one otw !!!"
- Lax starts pulling her own hair, " Waaaaa next one coming soon ha !!"
- Lax starts trying to put her toe in her mouth. " Lax lil bro/sis coming soon I think "
AGAIN
DEAR AUNTY MISS SIBUK.
- Please note that my stitches has not even dried up yet !
- All Lax need is her mittens on & EVERYBODY will be just fineeeeeeeeeeeee
- You know what aunty, I don't think Lax needs to put in any afford for this.
- AUNTY MISS SIBUK TOLONG JANGAN SIBUK
OMG I Can go on and on about these myths and beliefs !!!!!!
WHAT ABOUT ME ?
Pheww life has never been this hectic.. it's true that people say mothers are superwomen !!! Juggling everything work, home, family, & BUNDLE OF JOY !!!!
Me: So when will I have time for me ???
REALITY : ME ???????? WHAT ME ??? WHO ME ???????? THERE'S NO " ME,MYSELF & I " anymore in life !!
Yes ladies !!!! once the bundle of joy arrives there's no time for yourself. You often miss your meals, no more singing in the shower time, you hardly find time to sleep, you become outdated in latest movies. "ENNATHU ???? ROBBIN WILLIAM SETHUTHARAAAAAAAAA ???????".
We intend to completely focus on nothing else but our bundle of joy.
But is that right ??? Just take a minute and think of our mother's life, it has always been about others and never about them. I wouldn't wanna lose myself. So I have decided to slowly change my lifestyle. I make sure I have my meals ( healthy ones ), After putting Laxshika to sleep I do my skin care routine & etc it's all about finding the time for yourself. Though she STILL doesn't have her day naps. She goes full time on her night sleep. Only wakes up for her feed n that's it. The key of having time for yourself is to be SELFISH. LOL ! Don't I sound wicked ??????? Naaaa !!!
Thank God I have my " MOMMIES GANG" on WhatsApp to keep me accompanied the whole day !!! Makes me feel like I'm not the only odd one out there.
Me: So when will I have time for me ???
REALITY : ME ???????? WHAT ME ??? WHO ME ???????? THERE'S NO " ME,MYSELF & I " anymore in life !!
Yes ladies !!!! once the bundle of joy arrives there's no time for yourself. You often miss your meals, no more singing in the shower time, you hardly find time to sleep, you become outdated in latest movies. "ENNATHU ???? ROBBIN WILLIAM SETHUTHARAAAAAAAAA ???????".
We intend to completely focus on nothing else but our bundle of joy.
But is that right ??? Just take a minute and think of our mother's life, it has always been about others and never about them. I wouldn't wanna lose myself. So I have decided to slowly change my lifestyle. I make sure I have my meals ( healthy ones ), After putting Laxshika to sleep I do my skin care routine & etc it's all about finding the time for yourself. Though she STILL doesn't have her day naps. She goes full time on her night sleep. Only wakes up for her feed n that's it. The key of having time for yourself is to be SELFISH. LOL ! Don't I sound wicked ??????? Naaaa !!!
Thank God I have my " MOMMIES GANG" on WhatsApp to keep me accompanied the whole day !!! Makes me feel like I'm not the only odd one out there.
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