Next one on the way !!!!!

Now don't get into any conclusion reading the tittle  !!!!!!! This post is nothing else but a grumble about our culture's myths and beliefs. 

• When you're newly  married, you put on a few pounds and people go like " Hey Divi, you put on weight, pregnant ha ?
• When you're newly married and lose weight or look pale, people go like " Hey Divi, looking pale, enna morning sickness ha ??? 
• When you're newly married and look normal, people go like " So, any good news on the way??" ( while rubbing your tummy !!! )

DEAR AUNTY MISS SIBUK !!!

1. I know I have put on weight !!! its because I am EATTING ALOT !!!!!!
2. I am looking pale because I'm just recovering from food poisoning !!!
3. Can I throw back the same question on you @ a funeral ???

I truly believe that having a child is not in anyone's hand, it's all in God hand. Having a child is a gift from God. You may get it immediately after your marriage, or after a few months, or maybe after a couple of years. So don't go around pushing people on if they are pregnant or not. They surely will inform the whole world if they are! So just chill and watch some serials till they inform you the good news !

Coming back to this post title !!!

Now that I have already gone thru the whole hell process of what newly married girls go thru, I thought iwas done, but NO!!!!!! 

Here comes "Aunty miss sibuk again "

• During Lax's 16th day prayer, broke the coconut during the ritual and there was a flower in the coconut "if that's what they call it". People go like " Waaaaa very goood la next one otw !!!"

•    Lax starts pulling her own hair, " Waaaaa next one coming soon ha !!"
•    Lax starts trying to put her toe in her mouth.  " Lax lil bro/sis coming soon I think "

AGAIN 

DEAR AUNTY MISS SIBUK.

1. Please note that my stitches has not even dried up yet !
2. All Lax need is her mittens on & EVERYBODY will be just fineeeeeeeeeeeee
3. You know what aunty, I don't think Lax needs to put in any afford for this.
4. AUNTY MISS SIBUK TOLONG JANGAN SIBUK

OMG I Can go on and on about these myths and beliefs !!!!!!

WHAT ABOUT ME ?

Pheww life has never been this hectic.. it's true that people say mothers are superwomen !!! Juggling everything work, home, family, & BUNDLE OF JOY !!!! 

Me: So when will I have time for me ???
REALITY : ME ???????? WHAT ME ??? WHO ME ???????? THERE'S NO " ME,MYSELF & I " anymore in life !!

Yes ladies !!!! once the bundle of joy arrives there's no time for yourself. You often miss your meals, no more singing in the shower time, you hardly find time to sleep, you become outdated in latest movies. "ENNATHU ???? ROBBIN WILLIAM SETHUTHARAAAAAAAAA ???????".
We intend to completely focus on nothing else but our bundle of joy.

But is that right ??? Just take a minute and think of our mother's life, it has always been about others and never about them. I wouldn't wanna lose myself. So I have decided to slowly change my lifestyle. I make sure I have my meals ( healthy ones ), After putting Laxshika to sleep I do my skin care routine & etc it's all about finding the time for yourself. Though she STILL doesn't have her day naps. She goes full time on her night sleep. Only wakes up for her feed n that's it. The key of having time for yourself is to be SELFISH. LOL ! Don't I sound wicked ??????? Naaaa !!!

Thank God I have my " MOMMIES GANG" on WhatsApp to keep me accompanied the whole day !!! Makes me feel like I'm not the only odd one out there.